The Anonymous Widower

Farewell Amy Winehouse

From my bedroom in Cockfosters, I could see Southgate School, which Amy Winehouse would attend many years later.

I can also remember my sister and the other girls at the school coming and going innocently in the road in front of the house.

Now, after a later life of abuse, the obviously talented Amy is gone.  How many of the other boys and girls in her year have gone the same way? Probably only a handful, if my feelings are correct.  This is based on the fact that most of my late son’s school friends are still here. And some have not been without drink and drug problems.

So when we remember Amy, let’s remember the good things, like her music and her success.  And never ever think that her drink and drug problems are something to be admired.

Sadly, it seems that if you’re in the music industry, you attract those criminals, who want to sell you drugs, so they can have a large slice of your money.

July 24, 2011 Posted by | News | , , , , | 1 Comment

A Cable Thief Finally Wins a Darwin Award

After several attempts recently, like this one and these on the Central line in London, someone has finally won a Darwin Award in Leeds.

I know it’s sad when someone dies, but it does appear that in this case the electricity company involved has done a lot to make the site safe.

July 5, 2011 Posted by | News | , , | 1 Comment

The Good Don’t Always Die Young!

Unless of course you consider 95 to be before your time.

Arthur Budgett was a racehorse trainer, who is one of only two people to have bred, owned and trained two Derby winners. In his case they were Blakeney and Morston. C and I actually used Blakeney to cover one of our mares and I had the pleasure of meeting the horse several times at the National Stud, where he was very much a favourite of everybody.

To get more of the flavour of someone who seems to have been a truly good man, read his obituary in the Telegraph. I particularly like this paragraph.

That he had only two head lads — Denis Rayson and Tow Dowdeswell — throughout the 30 years that he was training speaks elegantly of his consistency of character and the esteem in which he was held by his staff. Despite all the success he enjoyed, Arthur Budgett remained a modest and unfailingly courteous man, though he would fight his corner resolutely when he thought he was being unfairly treated — as happened when one of his horses was subjected to a dope test, and an official attempted to prevent him from having an independent vet carrying out another test. Budgett won his point; had he not done so, his career could have been brought to a very early end.

They don’t make people like that these days.  More’s the pity.

June 24, 2011 Posted by | Sport, World | , , | Leave a comment

Was It Right To Bomb Germany As We Did in the Second World War?

I have felt for a long time that the bombing of German cities by the RAF and the USAAF was rather a pointless exercise driven more by vengeance and revenge than any strategic purpose to defeat the Nazis.

Remember, I was brought up in London and many of my relatives experienced the bombing first hand. My grandfather’s premises close to the Barbican, where he worked as an engraver, were completely destroyed in the Blitz. Many of these people weren’t too bothered about the bombing as it just made them angry and anyway they survived. Others might have felt different, but most just felt that you had to deal with what happened and get on with life. Supposedly, one of the reasons for bombing civilians was to break their moral and hopefully get them to turn against the government.  I think that London and other British cities that were bombed showed that it didn’t work.  If anything it just stiffened their resolve to carry on.

Was it any different in Germany, when we bombed their cities? I’ve only met a couple of Germans, who endured the bombing from the RAF and the USAAF and they didn’t seem to react any differently  to the way we did. And they probably suffered a lot more.

But also remember that a 250,000 from both the RAF and the USAAF either died or went missing in the bombing of Germany. So in some ways we lost the trained personnel that we really needed to support the invasion.

I also remember reading the history of the de Havilland Mosquito. Initially this superb design wasn’t really wanted by the RAF, as they felt who in his right mind would want to fly across to bomb Germany in an unarmed aircraft built out of ply and balsa wood. To them and the USAAF, a heavily armed four engined bomber would obviously be better. But statistics proved them wrong, as the Mosquito, which carried virtually the same bomb load as a B-17, but with a crew of two instead of ten, had a much higher return rate and much lower losses of crew. It was also much faster and could bomb Germany twice in one night.

In my view it should have been used strategically to take out German infrastructure, such as important factories and rail junctions. Wikipedia says this.

Mosquitos were widely used by the RAF Pathfinder Force, which marked targets for night-time strategic bombing. Despite an initially high loss rate, the Mosquito ended the war with the lowest losses of any aircraft in RAF Bomber Command service. Post war, the RAF found that when finally applied to bombing, in terms of useful damage done, the Mosquito had proved 4.95 times cheaper than the Avro Lancaster.

Yesterday, the obituary of Flight Lieutenant Don Nelson was published in the papers.

He was an RAF navigator, who helped to plan the destruction of German infrastructure in the run up to D-Day.

This is an extract from The Times.

In the spring of 1944 Bomber Command under its redoubtable but stubborn leader, Air Chief Marshal Sir Arthur Harris, was ordered to divert a proportion of its energies from the strategic bombing of Germany, of which Harris was the architect, to attacking targets in northern France and Belgium — railways, bridges, tunnels, marshalling yards — whose destruction would materially expedite the forthcoming Allied invasion of German-occupied Europe.

Although Harris dug his heels in against what he was convinced was a misuse of his strategic bomber force, a trial raid against a railway centre at Trappes, south west of Paris, in early March resulted in such spectacular destruction and dislocation of rail traffic that it became evident that a sustained assault by Bomber Command would be capable of virtually paralysing the German capacity to move troops against whatever beach heads the Allies might establish before, and not after, the projected invasion. This was a vital discovery. In spite of Harris’s protests his best bomber squadrons were from then until June 6, 1944, and afterwards, employed on this momentous interdiction work.

The Telegraph tells a very similar story.

Looking back with 20/20 hindsight, I think we probably could have done better in our bombing campaign against Germany, by bombing infrastructure important to the war effort, rather than the general population.

We also never learn from the past, as if we look at Iraq, Afghanistan and now Libya, we continue to make the same mistakes we always do. Inevitably vengeance seems to get mixed up with the simple objective of defeating a vile and hideous regime and its leader.

June 16, 2011 Posted by | World | , , , , , | 5 Comments

The Tudor Way of Death

This report is on the BBC web site. Judging by the number of gun accidents, we haven’t got much better, although we don’t drown in cess pits so often.

June 14, 2011 Posted by | World | , | Leave a comment

Farewell Flick Colby!

To many British men of my generation, Flick Colby was an icon of the 1960s almost as important as some of the bands and singers of the era. 

Her choreography and performances in the initial dance group she founded, Pan’s People, are remembered by many, as they were often the highlight of the week’s television to men and boys of a certain age.

If people think today that such as Lady Gaga and other singers are raunchy, then at some times Pan’s People were only slightly less so.  Mary Whitehouse certainly didn’t approve.

So farewell Flick! You gave lots of people, lots of pleasure.

May 30, 2011 Posted by | News, World | , , | 1 Comment

Is It Time To Close the Madeleine McCann Case?

Close is probably not the word, but there comes a time after any death or when someone goes missing,  when those left behind must move on!  And I say that, as someone who has lost not only a son, but a wife as well. I also once in the 1990s had a long talk, with a senior detective, who had been involved in quite a few cases where a body had been discovered many years after death and the results weren’t always murder, but sometimes a very unusual accident. Admittedly most of his cases involved older children or adults, so his experience can’t be applied to the McCann or any other child cases, but it was a fascinating insight into so-called cold cases.

Read this article on the BBC, which describes a dignified protest by others who have lost children.  Here is an extract.

The Met agreed to review the case after a Home Office request, but London Assembly member Jenny Jones has said this was unfair on other crime victims.

It is in some ways a hard thing to say, but I agree with Ms. Jones. As the detective also told me no murder or possible murder case is ever closed in the UK.

It is not a decision I would like to take, either as the parents , a policeman or a politician. But then I had to move on in my life! and I can say that it has helped me to come to terms with all my grief. After all, everybody has something to give to society and dwelling on the past doesn’t help in that process. Learning from your experiences and the mistakes you might have made does help and we all have a responsibility to help ensure that what happened to us, doesn’t happen to others.

May 26, 2011 Posted by | News | , , | 7 Comments

An Abandoned Jewish Cemetery

Walking around London, I get amazed and sometimes very sad.

An Abandoned Jewish Cemetery

This picture was taken at a virtually abandoned Jewish Cemetery in Bancroft Road behind the Mile End Hospital.

Yesterday, I was amazed at finding this cemetery without any information on either my map or the fence and saddened at its state.

May 12, 2011 Posted by | World | , | 2 Comments

Yesterday’s Person of the Day was a Woman

With all the elections and the referendum going on in the UK and Obama’s trimphalist vengeance in the United States it fell to a woman to add some sanity to the world.

Lady Justice Hallett’s handling of the inquests into the London bombings of the 7th July 2005 has been exemplary and shows how justice can be seen to be done and closure can be brought to a tragic part of British history. 

There will always be some who call for more enquiries to apportion blame, but in my view it is time for everybody to move on. I have lost two members of my close family to vicious cancers and can sympathise with those who have lost someone dear to them. Who do I have to blame?

Life is a perilous and risky business and it is only by means of luck that we live as long as we do!

May 7, 2011 Posted by | News, World | , , | 2 Comments

Farewell – Sir Henry Cooper

Sir Henry Cooper was a gentleman in a sport that doesn’t have too many.  Although one wonders if recent British boxers have taken their lead from the way Our Enry behaved.

I saw him once, as he had been asked to open a new shop opposite our offices in Ipswich.  He was just strolling down the street confidently towards the shop, people were calling and talking to him in a friendly way and he was signing autographs and chatting to the crowd like only real celebrities do.

He’ll be sadly missed by all.

May 1, 2011 Posted by | News, Sport | , , | Leave a comment