The Anonymous Widower

Calcium and Vitamin D

Yesterday afternoon, I chewed a calcium tablet and took a small one for vitamin D, after a chat with my doctor about the results of the blood tests.

I hadn’t expected a quick effect, but did I get one last night, as I felt a lot better in the evening, with a lot less pain in my mouth and arm. I went to bed at half-ten and slept well until six in the morning, which is usually my time to start the day.

Typing seems a bit better this morning, so who knows if the pills have had an affect.  I can’t believe one of each can bring an improvement. It could be just psychological, in that I now know there’s nothing wrong!

Here’s hoping that they did.

Today, I’m off to London to see Ipswich play at Millwall.  I shall be exploring hidden parts of London for this blog.  So let’s see how my body holds up today!

If nothing though, I would argue that everybody needs a full set of blood tests at about forty to see if they have any underlying problems.  If I had it earlier, they might have picked up my coeliac disease, but reading about calcium deficiency and its symptoms, I may have suffered from that too at times.  I have always tended to have pins and needles in my left hand and even saw the doctor about it once.  We put it down to the break in the arm caused by the bully at school.  But could it have been a calcium deficiency?

Also, as I feel used to feel that all gluten-free bread was made from cardboard, I didn’t eat it.  so was I getting my recommended dose of cslcium, as by law bread in the UK has to have added calcium?

I knew that there was something wrong, as I lay in hospital and wanted them to do a full blood test because I felt it was a coeliac problem.  Should all of those recovering from a stroke, be given a full set of blood tests, to make sure they don’t have any underlying problems that are hindering their recovery?

September 21, 2010 Posted by | Health, Sport, Transport/Travel | , , , , | 1 Comment

Scotland and London Get the Pope, Suffolk Gets the Tour of Britain!

Today, the Tour of Britain came to Clare, which is a village a few miles from where I live.

I asked one of the local officers about it and he definitely felt we’d got the most entertainment and the better deal.

There was quite a few people on the streets  of one of Suffolk’s most pleasant villages, as this video shows.

After the excitement, I went down the pub and had a half of Aspalls, before returning home for lunch.

Looking back on today, I’m rather pleased at how the video has turned out. It’s the first real one, I’ve done since the stroke and it’s a lot better than some I’ve tried.  But this was done with my trusty Fuji S5700 and Windows Movie Maker.

September 17, 2010 Posted by | News, Sport | , , , , , | 1 Comment

Is Lincolnshire a Nanny State?

This story, about a father being threatened with action because his seven-year old daughter walk twenty metres to the bus stop to go to school is ridiculous.

At the age of six or seven in the early 1950s, I used to be taken to the bus stop at Oakwood by my mother to catch the 107 bus to Enfield for piano lessons with my Aunt Mabel. I had my couple of pence for the ticket and used to sit in one of the back three seats by the conductor.  When I got to the stop just past Enfield Town station, I would get off and run down to my aunt’s.  It should also be said that my aunt didn’t have a phone at the time.  Were my family responsible or not?  Perhaps, my illnesses are all down to letting me look after myself from an early age!

September 13, 2010 Posted by | News | , , , | 2 Comments

An Express Return to Suffolk

I must admit, I did leave a few minutes before the end of the match, but time was tight, if I was to make my taxi home, as he had a later booking to collect someone from Gatwick.

So by 17:14, I was on a London train out of Fratton station.

Waterloo to Liverpool Street is one of those journeys that isn’t the best on the Underground. You can change from Northern to Central at Tottenhsm Court Road, but because I had my case with me, I’d found out before that there was a direct bus; the 26, which stops just outside the back entrance to Waterloo and goes directly to Liverpool Street.  It was a good choice, especially as it dropped me at the Bishopsgate entrance at Liverpool Street.  I just had time to purchase a ticket from a machine that worked, unlike at Whittlesford, and then board the train.

Admittedly, it was a few minutes late into the station, but the taxi was there and I was watching the television by a quarter to nine.  So it was about three and a half hours door-to-door!

September 12, 2010 Posted by | Transport/Travel | , , , , , | Leave a comment

My Last Visit to Waterloo

Waterloo Station is not a place that I’ve visited much. Admittedly in the first few years after I started as a freelance programmer, I did use it quite a bit for short journeys to places like Epsom, Cobham and Guildford, but once we moved to Suffolk, I rarely needed to use the station. C and I did go to Paris on Eurostar, but even then we parked in the car park undearneath and sneaked in.

My last visit was in 2001, when I took a thousand Al Stewart CD’s from Bury St. Edmunds to his manager, who’d taken the train up from somewhere like Basingstoke.  I was to collect  a Banker’s Draft in return after our meeting at around twelve.

I had visited a client in Borough High Street and afterwards I was to see another in London’s Chinatown, just north of Leicester Square.  I had actually driven, as there was no Congestion Charge and parking was no problem in any of the areas I was to visit, if you stayed less than an hour on a meter.

I was a little early for my meeting at Waterloo, so I parked the car on an empty meter and decided to fill the time by making a few phone calls. For some reason, the radio in the car had been switched off and as the phone was not hands-free, I couldn’t put it on anyway and use the phone. I needed to phone C about something, but try as I might, I couldn’t remember her mobile number.  Even now, after the stroke, I can still remember, every phone number, I’ve ever used regularly. I tried other numbers and even they were blank.  I just thought I was having some sort of brain problem, but as all my other functions were correct, I felt it was just a function of getting old.

On time, I arrived at the station and swapped the CD’s dor the draft.  Al’s manager had to get back, so quickly and surprisingly for me in a silent car, I set off across the river for my next meeting.  I parked in the underground car park in Chinatown and walked to the office to have my meeting.

Only then, when I entered the office and saw everyone clustered in earnest fashion around the television sets did I realise that the attacks on the Twin Towers in New York had happened.

You can argue what you like about this, but once I knew of the ghastly attacks, all of the numbers returned to by mind. Rupert Sheldrake and others have argued that a knowledge field exists.  Perhaps, it does!

Saturday, when I ook the train to Portsmouth and like that fateful day in 2001, it was September 11th.  Nothing happened in the station, but I did read Robert Fisk’s excellent article in The Independent about our woeful, vile and vengeful reaction to the attack. When someone or something hurts you, you have to fight back in a constructive manner, so that it doesn’t happen again.  Loose your rag and be vindictive and you loose your one weapon, your sense of thought, reason and intelligence.  As an example,my biggest protection against another stroke, is to change things, so that I reduce the risks and also to question everything I do, to make sure it is right.

Blair and Bush failed to do that! This was profoundly stupid, as they had the sympathy of the whole world after the attacks. But what did they do, they attacked Saddam Husein, who a few years before had been their friend.

And what did a crazy American pastor want to do on Saturday? Burn the Koran! As I’ve said many times, you don’t burn books, you read them! And when you’ve read them as many times as you can, you pass them on to someone who might enjoy them or learn something! Failing that, you may recycle them to make more things to read!

September 12, 2010 Posted by | Transport/Travel, World | , , , , | 1 Comment

London Buses

In the two and a half days or so, that I spent in London, I used the buses a lot. They worked well, especially, as the information at stops, generally allows you to choose the right bus for your journey with ease. There is one thing, that I’d like to see and that is some form of route map actually on the buses, so that if you are unfamiliar with the route, you can make the right decision about which stops to use.  I think this is often brought about, by the fact that I’m unable to recognise where I am from the lower deck of a bus.

But I can still use the top deck, as this picture of the inside of a Routemaster on Route 15 shows.

Top Deck of a Routemaster

Stranglely as a child, I didn’t travel on these iconic buses very often, as they weren’t introduced into the suburbs, like Cockfosters where I lived, until after I left.  The first place I saw them was at Wood Green, where they replaced the trolley buses.

But when C and our young family lived in St. John’s Wood, we used them extensively to get around London.  It may surprise people to read that we could manage three small children and a large double pushchair with ease on these buses.  But then in those days, it was either use the bus or walk! Or in C’s case push!

I should say that on my trip from Trafalgar Square to St. Pauls on the Routemaster, I had no difficulties with the stairs.  So that was another victory against the Devil!

September 12, 2010 Posted by | Transport/Travel | , , | 3 Comments

Exchange at Whitechapel

On Friday morning, I walked from the Raj Hotel in the Essex Road through de Beauvoir Town to Dalston Junction Station to catch the East London Line. It was a pleasant walk through one of the most unusual and pleasant parts of London and I was using the train to go to the Museum of London after a change at Whitechapel to the Hammersmith and City Line for Barbican.

The simple change took me longer than it should, as in the first place, signage from the East London line to the Hammersmith and City wasn’t good, a train indicator board was broken and then I had to wait some time for a train. I did talk to someone on the platform and he  was helpful and acknowledged the problem.  I hope it improves, as it will become an important link between the Overground and the Underground.

I should say that I’ve used Whitechapel for years and it really isn’t any worse than it was when my granddaughter was born in the London Hospital. I suspect there’s a lot of problems because the interchange is where it is, with pavements and a street market outside and limited space inside.

I would also suspect that as Whitechapel Station is going to be a major interchange on CrossRail, that the problems I encountered will be designed out in the years to come.

September 12, 2010 Posted by | Transport/Travel | , , , , , | Leave a comment

Traffic News

Lying in my comfortable hotel bed on Friday morning watching the BBC Breakfast program for London, I suddenly realised that I no longer need traffic news, as effectively I can’t drive, so it’s somebody else’s problem!

Will I ever drive again? Perhaps I will and perhaps I won’t!

September 12, 2010 Posted by | News, Transport/Travel | , | Leave a comment

An Unusual and Good Hotel

It wouldn’t suit everybody, but for someone, who needs an affordable place to put their head down in Islington, I can recommend the place where I spent, Thursday and Friday night, The Raj Hotel in the Essex Road. I paid £60 for the total of the two nights and I had a cosy room with a very modern and clean shower/bathroom, a choice of two comfortable beds, where I slept well, a Freeview TV and a light breakfast. The staff incidentally, were everything you could expect in a small hotel.  Something that is often lacking in other hotels!

Judging by the people at breakfast on the Friday, a couple of single women were staying, which is always a test of value and quality.

On the Friday night, I also sampled the food, which was excellent and proper Bangladeshi food with lots of flavour.  I paid just under £10 for a chicken tikka, trimmings and a Coke.

Tommy Miah, who owns this hotel and also one in Edinburgh, may be starting a revolution here.  Will we be seeing affordable and clean Indian-themed hotels, possibly attached to good restaurants, springing up all over the UK? I surely hope so, as there is a vast gap in the marketplace.

I shall certainly be staying again.  If I ever get to buy a house nearby the hotel, I will probably use the restaurant again.

September 12, 2010 Posted by | Food, Transport/Travel | , , | 1 Comment

That Terrible Word From

Go to the Premier Inn web site and you’ll see a smiling Lenny Henry telling you thewy have rooms available from £27 a night.

But search for a real room, that you need and you’ll find prices are a lot higher per night.  I don’t think I’ve ever seen a room I might need at less than a hundred a night!

I have better things to do, but there comes a point, where this is misleading advertising!

Other sites seem no better.  I’d like to stay in London on the 9th and 10th of September, so that I can look for a house in the city and also be better placed for the trip to Portsmouth on the 11th.  I can’t find anything affordable at all.

September 4, 2010 Posted by | Transport/Travel | , | 1 Comment