The Anonymous Widower

Depression Or Just Fed-Up?

They are talking about depression on BBC Breakfast this morning, saying that more anti-depressants are being prescribed.

Over the years, I used to suffer from mild depression, but generally my mother or later my wife, used to pull me out of it.

Since being diagnosed as a coeliac, fifteen years ago, I haven’t seemed to have suffered much, if at all.  And it’s not that I haven’t had something to get depressed about, what with the death of my wife and son to cancer and my stroke!

But then due to my gluten-free diet, I’m getting all the vitamins I need, as my gut now works properly.

But I’ve been rather fed up in the last few weeks, as I don’t like the hot weather, the lack of an intelligent lady to take to art galleries, the theatre or the cinema, the non-progress on my building works and no football to watch live or on the television.

It all gets better this weekend with the football season starting for Ipswich at Reading and Stevenage!

All I really need now, is someone, preferably female and intelligent, to share meals and experiences.

I do wonder how many of those prescribed anti-depressants, just need a decent experience or two to give them a lift!

August 2, 2013 Posted by | Sport, World | , , | 1 Comment

Hydrogen – The New Green Superfuel

I found this article from one of my Internet trawls. It describes how in remote areas, excess energy from a local wind farm or solar panels can be used to create hydrogen, which is then stored and used as a fuel.

This is very much experimental at the moment, but it is a simple solution to the problem of providing continuous power in remote locations.

We will be seeing lots of sensible solutions like this in the future.

August 2, 2013 Posted by | World | , | Leave a comment

Sri Lanka To Free Elderly Prisoners

I found this report on the Internet. here’s the story.

Sri Lankan President Mahinda Rajapaksa has ordered elderly prisoners over 60 years of age serving term for minor offences to be pardoned and released.

 According to Prisons Rehabilitation and Reforms Minster Chandrasiri Gajadeera, the decision comes amidst a need to reduce the number of prisoners in over-crowded prisons around the country.

 Prison sources said that older prisoners who have served more than 10 years of jail term will be released after the necessary papers have been drawn up.

 The new legislation, when passed, is expected to reduce the congestion in prisons to an extent.

Sadly, the country has re-introduced the death penalty.

But the first idea should be introduced in this country.

What is actually needed is an on-line database of prisoners, which obviously has anonymised.  Then we could see how many prisoners say had had severe strokes or had got dementia and perhaps move them into a more caring regime.

August 1, 2013 Posted by | World | , | Leave a comment

My Devonian Ancestry

I was watching Who Do You Think You Are? last night and it got me thinking about my family tree.

Of the four surnames of my grandparents; three are fairly common, but my maternal grandmother, who incidentally was born in the Balls Pond Road, close to where I live now, had a surname of Upcott. So I typed “surname origin upcott” into the Internet and found this page, which says this.

This name is of English locational origin from one of the four villages so named, all in the county of Devonshire. These “Upcott’s” are to be found in the parishes of Culmstock, Dowland, North Mol;ton and Rockbeare, and all have the same meaning. This is literally “the cottage up (the hill)”

So if she didn’t come from Devon, the name certainly did.

August 1, 2013 Posted by | World | | Leave a comment

Could Banks Help To Cut Fraud By Doing Simple Things?

A couple of days ago, I noticed a spurious and unknown payment in my bank account for £115.73. It was just labelled Bank Ctedit, with no indication as to who had sent it.

Checking for those that usually pay money into my account, I could not find a similar payment in the past. So I came to the conclusion, it was probably an error in the banking system. Or possibly some clever fraud! But then I’m cynical.

This morning it revealed itself as a rebate from nPower, who supply my electricity and gas. Perhaps four days ago, they read my electricity meter, so there is a possible explanation.

But supposing that the credit had been a debit, or I had not noticed it, as many people don’t check their bank statements every day, as I do.

Now if the banks put more information on the pending debits and credits, which they must have, it might help cut fraud, in that customers would be alerted to what was happening earlier.

It’s the same with cashpoint withdrawals, where the information is very minimal.  How many people would spot a fraudulent withdrawal from their bank account, from the information given now. If the withdrawals were properly labelled, customers would probably spot an illegal one earlier and more easily.

August 1, 2013 Posted by | Finance & Investment, World | , | Leave a comment

I Hate Avoidable Imperfections

I have just spent twenty minutes putting out the recycling. As it was only two full green sacks of mixed recycling and a cardboard box, that is far too long.

The problem isn’t the sacks, the box, my gammy hand or anything else outside of my control, but the front door of my house. I asked my previous builder to do something with it, so that it doesn’t close on its own volition.  Luckily, it has only managed to lock me out once, but tonight it closed on me four times, as I took the recycling out. But I always check that my keys are in my pocket, as they were tonight.

I’ve been in this house nearly three years and I’m getting fed up with this door.  All it needs is to look good, have an adequate letter box to replace the one, the previous builders broke, only shut when I want it to, and possibly be able to be locked and unlocked from upstairs, by flicking a switch.

I have an adequate budget for this job and I don’t think it’s too much to hope that this door will be sorted soon.

I suppose the real problem is that Jerry got the door on the cheap!

 

July 31, 2013 Posted by | World | , , | Leave a comment

Did These Adverts Affect The Choice Of The Royal Baby’s Name?

These adverts are on the Tube all over London and have been for several weeks.

Did These Adverts Affect The Choice Of The Royal Baby's Name?

Did These Adverts Affect The Choice Of The Royal Baby’s Name?

Was it a subtle message? As the Queen was obviously very interested and probably went on Saturday, it was perhaps a name in the forefront of the whole family’s minds.

My youngest son, was called George, so I have no objections to it as a name, but to me, it’s probably an unlucky one.

I don’t know whether, I could have a lady friend called Georgia or Georgina.

July 31, 2013 Posted by | Sport, Transport/Travel, World | , , , | Leave a comment

Ten Reasons I Don’t Like Eastfield

I went to Waitrose in Eastfield this evening, to get some bits and pieces for my supper.

1. The Waitrose there is not for me, as some of the staples I like, like Genius bread never seem to be in stock.  I also found out tonight, that it doesn’t have all the small packs of microwaveable vegetables I use.

2. The Marks and Spencer isn’t a patch on the ones in Oxford Street or Finsbury Pavement for food.  It doesn’t even stock gluten-free sandwiches, which is rare in a their larger stores.

3. Clothes at Marks and Spencer are probably the normal standard, but unless you get in early in the season, small sizes can be difficult to find.

4. Although, I don’t use it often these days, the Starbucks at Eastfield doesn’t use proper china cups.

5. I went into John Lewis today and it really is a bit small and inferior when compared to the flagship store in Oxford Street.

6. Waitrose and John Lewis are a long way from the main Stratford station.

7. With the exception of Marks and Spencer, I’ve bought no clothing in any of the shops there, as they seem to be almost exclusively aimed at women. The few shops that sell men’s clothes are ones  I wouldn’t visit.

8. The only restaurant that I know serves gluten-free food is Jamie’s Italian. Why can’t it have a Carluccio’s like Westfield?

9. As I’m very much a guerilla shopper, who comes, buys what he wants and retreats immediately, the centre is usually too crowded for my liking.

10. In some ways my major gripe is that, if say you want to go anywhere from the main Stratford station, you have to walk through the shopping centre. I always go shopping, when I want to, not when I end up in a shopping centre by accident.

You may think that this has all been very negative.

But I do like the toilets, the only Lakeland near me and the large numbers of cash points.

July 30, 2013 Posted by | Food, World | , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

The Cafe In The Queen Elizabeth Olympic Park

The cafe in the Queen Elizabeth Olympic Park is all new.

It is run by a company called Unity Kitchen, who have this as their mission statement.

We have a strong social and environmental purpose; we create jobs for people with disabilities, make good food affordable for local people, and run our business sustainably.

They did have a gluten-free cake from a company called Sponge.

The cafe was busy, but it probably needs a few more days to get its systems working better.

July 30, 2013 Posted by | Food, World | , | Leave a comment

Visiting The New Park

I finally, got to view the new Queen Eizabeth Olympic Park yesterday.

It is obviously not finished by any means, but it is impressive.

It also opens early in the morning at 06:00 and closed fairly late.

I travelled to the park, by getting a 588 bus from Hackney Wick, to the stop by the Copper Box. At present, the information on the bus isn’t working in the area of the park, but I suspect it will be in a few days.

July 30, 2013 Posted by | World | , , , | Leave a comment