The Anonymous Widower

People Shouldn’t be so Thin-Skinned

There is a story in the Standard last night entitled Tantrum of the Opera. A Twickenham housewife tweeted to her friend that although she had seen the musical eighty  times, she couldn’t stand the star. It has now developed into a full-blooded row.

I would make three conclusions from this.

In the first place the comment was only tweeted to a friend and thus the star is being a bit over the top.

Secondly, the lady has seen the musical eighty times, and so as she is effectively paying some of the star’s wages, she deserves a little respect.

Lastly, if I was producing a musical, I know someone, who I wouldn’t be employing.

They were also discussing another case on BBC Breakfast this morning, where someone made a comment about an X-Factor contestant. She has now suffered months of abuse.

She was possibly a bit unwise to say what she says, but it does illustrate, why you should always be careful what you say on social networking sites. However to abuse the lady and call her all sorts of unwise things in totally wrong.

The sooner we have a high profile case, where one of these so called trolls, gets some time at Her Majesty’s pleasure, the better. It will be interesting to see how much abuse the judge gets.

I have had a bit of abuse in my time over this blog and suspect it was because the post was about an odious foreign government.

June 14, 2012 Posted by | Computing, News | , , | Leave a comment

When Social Media Goes Awry

The Telegraph reports an unseemly spat between Joe Simpson, the author of Touching the Void, and schoolchildren doing the book for GCSE.

It is the sort of thing that can happen on social media and I suspect both parties could have been a little bit more discrete or less outrageous with their replies.

I had a letter published once and it attracted some fairly abusive letters in reply. In the end, history has shown that I was right.

May 25, 2012 Posted by | Computing, News | , | Leave a comment

BBC Creates Addictive Viewing

According to the BBC, the amount of viewers of the Olympic Torch Relay has exceeded all expectations.  You could argue, that they would say that wouldn’t they. In fact Roger Mosey says it all here.

The coverage is not by satellite, but by mobile phone 3G technology, which gives the odd break in transmission.

Some are saying it’s addictive on Twitter and Facebook.  He’s one from Scotland.

Frances Chisholm on Facebook says: ‎”Kind of addictive” is an understatement. I am enjoying it all so much. Almost late for work this morning! I’m an ordinary working British Citizen, but “torchcam” makes me feel I can be part of it (the olympics) keep up the wonderful work! Will be cheering the flame when it passes through SELKIRK, Scottish Borders.

And I thought the Scots weren’t in favour of the Games.

 

May 23, 2012 Posted by | Computing, News, Sport | , , , | 2 Comments

FaceBook Renames Itself

To celebrate the performance of its shares, Facebook has changed its name to Facebomb.

As I left the site some time ago and wouldn’t deal in the shares at all, I can’t say this all bothers me. To paraphrase Marx, it’s a club I wouldn’t join, just because they’d have me as a member.

May 23, 2012 Posted by | Computing, Finance, News | | Leave a comment

Commenting on Television and Radio Programs

I like to comment on BBC programs.  But increasingly programs are expecting you to comment via Facebook. Which I won’t join!

What’s wrong with e-mail?

March 19, 2012 Posted by | Computing, World | , , , , , | Leave a comment

Leaving Facebook

I never use the site and although I had a profile, I was getting a bit fed up with some messages the site was sending me.  I should say there was nothing offensive, but I prefer to deal privately with people or through LinkedIn. So I decided to leave,logged in and looked for the Delete Profile button.

There isn’t an obvious one and I had to use Google to search for how to do it. But once I found a page on Yahoo, it was pretty much plain sailing. But one typing mistake would have meant my profile stayed.

All of these networking sites, should be obvious and easy to leave, so that those perhaps having unwanted messages can protect themselves virtually instantly.

I shall report, if I get any more communications from Facebook.

February 1, 2012 Posted by | Computing, News | | 3 Comments

The Facebook Two

Two men have been given substantial prison sentences for trying to organise a riot in Chester by using Facebook. as the BBC reports here. But they must have been two of worst riot organisers in history as no-one turned up.

Perhaps, the good people of Cheshire, have more morals, than these two have common sense.

You don’t send people to prison for this type of crime, especially when it would appear that nothing got damaged and no-one got hurt.

What they need is some form of creative community punishment.  Perhaps, there is a derelict site that could be converted into a garden! Or some coal that needs painting white!

One is certainly appealing, and I’ll be very surprised if the sentence stands.

August 17, 2011 Posted by | Computing, News | , , , , | Leave a comment

Will LulzSec Target the UK Legal System Over Jailing of Joanne Fraill?

LulzSec are a group of hackers, who have broken into various computer systems all over the world, including a web site linked with the CIA.

I do wonder whether the jailing of Joanne Fraill for discussing a case where she was a juror on Facebook, will get a response  from LulzSec. Especially, as some reports say all jurors who use Facebook to discuss cases will be jailed.

How long before the idiots on Facebook start a “Free joanne Fraill” campaign?

I can’t help feeling, that this one will run and run and in a direction that the government and the judges won’t like.

What Joanne Fraill did was wrong, but then it was also incredibly stupid.  So are we now jailing people for doing things, they don’t have the intelligence to realise are wrong? In Joanne Fraill’s case, she should have been given a community sentence.  Perhaps one working with the victims and problems of drug addiction, that her actions have inadvertently made worse, by stopping a trial of drug dealers.

June 17, 2011 Posted by | Computing, News | , , , , | 3 Comments

Justice By Facebook

I think that this is the biggest threat to justice, I’ve seen in the last thirty years. In this case for example, according to the Guardian, a juror contacted the defendant and the trial collapsed at a cost to taxpayers of £6,000,000.

I don’t know how you stop it, unless you ban those who know about the Internet from juries.

So it might be the end of the jury system in many cases, and we go to a system, where defendants are tried in front of a panel of judges.

I hope not.

June 14, 2011 Posted by | Computing, News | , , , , | 1 Comment

Facebook Involved in Divorces

It had to happen, that what you write on Facebook, would start to drop you in the mire over your marriage.  One of the reasons, I blog rather than use Facebook seriously, as I have total control over what goes up.  Also if someone uses bad spelling or grammar, I can remove the worst of the horrors. C also did some of her training in libel chambers, so I know enough to hopefully make sure, I stay the right side of that line. I also choose my targets with care.

This article in the Telegraph explains the problem of divorce and Facebook.

One lawyer is quoted as saying.

Many of divorces came after partners found “flirty messages” on the Facebook wall of their partner – and also “inappropriate suggestive chats” which spouses can see.

Note that I’ve corrected the punctuation in this extract. Times must be bad when you can’t rely on the Tory Party at Gossip.

As a widow, some would be surprised at some of the messages, I’ve exchanged with other widows. Flirting and the odd suggestion are very much part of life and help everybody to keep a balance in the darkest of times.

So that adds another layer of complexity to the problem and puts more icing on the legal bill.

January 23, 2011 Posted by | Computing | , , , | Leave a comment